Monday Miracle: What are You Worth?

Worth is a mighty, validating measurement. Have you considered your worth?

What are you worth?  In the creation of Monday miracles, the subject of worthiness or validity probably comes up for you at random times and in all probability your answers to that question of “worth” is manifested by behaviors that support your belief or self valuation.   This means then, that having an accurate sense of your worth is of defining merit.  This question and the answer you equate with it parallels the age old seminal question: Who am I?

Your calculation – far beyond numerical digits – of your worth can canalize or give direction to discovering perpetual happiness, inner acceptance, quiet resolve, and illumined grace.  Thus, determining what you are worth is significant.

How do you determine what you are worth?

Here are a few ways to consider worth: (please modify and add to this short list)

  • How do you feel about your contributions in life up to now? Are you excited, ready to contribute more because what you do has made a difference?
  • Do you feel respected and valued for what you do and who you are?
  • What do others say about you that speak to the worthiness of who you are?
  • When do you feel most worthy?

These questions are meant only to probe your inner psyche about how you perceive worth. That is the  true measurement of miraculous worth. I’ve often repeated the title of one of my favorite books by Terry Cole Whitaker, What You Think of Me is None of My Business; the reason being is because what others think of you is measureless compared to what you think of you.

What you think of yourself is the true, telling point of self-valuation.  Nothing more, nothing less. What you believe or perceive and accept about yourself tells it all.

If you cannot accept your noble worth and power, then no one else will.

A healthy sense of worth does not signify arrogance nor does a lower sense of worth signify humility or servility. Neither extreme is your lifeline.  What is more likely when you probe deeply the questions, is a balanced symmetry of traits and actions that fluctuate in measures of impact.

We are all WORTHY. There is not one worthless person alive. The honor is to recognize our worth and to acknowledge the worth in others. It matters not the measuring tool you use nor the size of our measurement, what matters is the acceptance of who you are and then loving that special worth within yourself and in others.

“There are four questions of value in life: What is sacred? Of what is the spirit made? What is worth living for? and What is worth dying for? The answer to each is the same-only love.” ~Johnny Depp

You are worthy, priceless estimations of joy and love.

Tell us how you determine your worth. Let’s start an open conversation around the question: How do you determine your worth?

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What Do You Want?

I don’t mean to be rude as is customarily the case when someone sounds irritated in a response to you. No, not at all. My intention by asking this question, what do you want is to probe you to think about the life question – What do YOU Want?

Really, ask yourself this question right now. Say, self (insert your name here) what do you want?

Next, take deliberate steps to answer the question. Let me real clear here – until you answer the question and seer the answer into your soul, you will be a flounder fish out of the water of life.

Don’t despair; I have Answers, thus the name Anita Answers – smile. Act on these five points to define exactly what you want.

Answer One
: Make a dream board, vision board, mastermind chart or goal message that contains images and wordings of exactly what you want. Be bodacious. Dream BIG! Fantasize. The main point in designing this visual of what you want is to allow no limitations at this point. Regardless of whether you can imagine or even expect most of what you really want to happen, do it anyway. Dream in colorful, broad dimension. That’s your only task.

To confirm my point, read The Eleventh Element by Robert Scheinfeld.

Answer Two
: Allow your 11th Element to work – this means that you must believe everything you want as visualized and set in visual form in Answer One. Belief becomes behavior.

Answer Three
: Act as if it has already been done. Behave in conformity with your beliefs. See the end now and act like you see every reality of your vision. Act like success and ecstatically enjoy who you have become.

Answer Four
: Write down the goals and objectives for each segment of your vision. For example: if you envision losing 30 pounds, then your goal should specifically state: I will lose 30 pounds. The objectives for that goal may be to feel better, to enjoy better health, to look sexy, to become more active, etc. These are specific reasons that support the goal.

Also, keep in mind that a goal must be specific! Otherwise, you only have a vague longing which will grant you nothing. You are capable of being definite here, so state in specific detailed form exactly what you want.

This is critical here because when you know why you want to do something, the how becomes easy. So, write the goal and then support the goals with rational reasons that explain why.

Recommended Reading: Jack Canfield, Success Principles: How to Get From Where You Are to Where You Want to Be. Excellent road map to goal setting and answering the question why.

Answer Five
: Go beyond yourself. No woman or man is an island. Thus, when you attach your new intentional goals to an altruistic cause that allows you to extend service to others, the reality of the goal is even more entrenched. Align at least one of your goals to service; there is plenty service work to do.

Answer Six
: Finally, become a repetitive ant. Get busy building your success ant mound. Do the same things, repeat the same mantra, look at your vision board and goals and objectives a hundred times a day or more if you need to. Make your own rhythm, but get busy making a repetitive rhythm. Repeat your goals out loud, write then down again and again, and look at your vision board to see the outcome you are working toward. Repeat, repeat, repeat until you have inculcated a new you and can instantly act accordingly. Act, act now, and continue to act!

Make success – whatever that dream is – your new habit.
The year 2010 will be different, when you are ready to be different!

Now, answer me. What do YOU Want?